When your child gags at certain food textures or notices smells that escape everyone else's attention, they're experiencing the power of the chemical senses—taste and smell. These are our most ancient sensory systems with direct highways to emotional and memory centers that bypass usual neural relay stations. Understanding this connection transforms how we support eating experiences and sensory responses.
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Ever notice how one whiff of broccoli can send your child running — or how they can detect a faint cookie smell from the other side of the house? Or maybe they chew the same bland crackers every day and refuse anything “too flavorful.” It’s not about pickiness or dramatic flair — it’s about how their brain processes smell and taste signals.
Taste buds can detect five basic flavors: sweet, salty, sour, bitter, and umami (savory). Smell adds thousands of subtle variations — it’s what turns “sweet” into “vanilla cupcake” or “savory” into “pepperoni pizza.” Together, they form your child’s flavor lab, where the brain blends chemical signals into a complete sensory picture.
If the lab runs “too hot,” “too cool,” or is constantly “looking for new experiments,” eating, safety, and even emotional regulation can be affected.
The flavor lab reacts intensely to small amounts of smell or taste.
You might see: gagging at strong-smelling foods; avoiding certain textures because of associated taste/smell; complaining about odors others don’t notice (perfume, cleaning products).
The lab doesn’t register much from smell or taste unless it’s strong.
You might see: preferring extra-spicy, salty, or heavily flavored foods; not noticing spoiled food; missing environmental smells like smoke or gas.
The brain actively seeks strong or novel flavors and scents.
You might see: smelling non-food items (markers, playdough); craving very sour candies or bold flavors; sniffing people, pets, or objects.
Think of it this way: Smell and taste are the brain’s quality control team. If they approve too few items or approve everything without question, the “product line” — what your child eats and responds to — gets skewed.
You’re gently expanding your child’s tolerance and awareness, without overwhelming their sensory lab or forcing experiences that feel unsafe.
Patterns may shift with context — your child might be over-responsive to strong food smells but under-responsive to environmental hazards, or a seeker in one category and avoider in the other.
Parent Takeaway: Smell and taste aren’t just about food — they influence safety, comfort, and emotional well-being. Matching the environment to your child’s sensory lab settings can make eating more enjoyable and daily life more predictable.
References: Prescott, 2012; Shepherd, 2015; Stevenson, 2010.
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