When Behavior Is the Message

Recorded live with INCLUDEnyc, October 2026. An hour long, and you don't need all of it: jump to the moment you're in.

Four Questions worksheet (PDF)Ages 2–8 development guide (PDF)

Chapters

1:58 Welcome and who I am
4:49 The birth-month experiment
10:52 What we saw, and what we couldn't
12:48 The brain + body lens (video)
18:28 Four questions for a hard moment
23:24 After school: "leave me alone"
27:49 Getting out the door: "put on your shoes"
30:37 Dinner: the cup at 5:40
32:52 Before, in the middle, after
38:08 Talking to the teacher
41:19 A real moment from the chat: drop-off
51:59 Weekends
55:48 After school and bedtime
58:34 Small victories